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1 5 hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k PJB 005/2013 EntwrIE iv`c AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn swriaw AOrqW lei ie`ko pirvwrk kwnumn[ Awpxy h`k jwxo[

2 hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k ieh pusiqkw quhwnum kwnumni mwmilawˆ di ie`k mu`fli smj prdwn krwaux vwsqy hy[ ieh ivakqigq kwnumni slwh Aqy shwieqw dw bdl nhiˆ hy[ jy qusiˆ pirvwrk kwnumni mwmilawˆ nwl ivhwr kr rhy ho, qwˆ ieh ispwrs kiqi jwˆdi hy ik qusiˆ AwpxIAwˆ coxwˆ num smjx lei Aqy Awpxy AiDkwrwˆ di r`ikaw krn lei ijmni jldi smbv hovy kwnumni slwh le[ iksy pirvwrk kwnumn dy vkil num ikvyˆ l`bxw hy Aqy ausnum Bugqwn ikvyˆ krnw hy, ies bwbq vdyry jwxkwri vwsqy swfi vy`bsweit qy swfi pusiqkw quhwfi pirvwrk kwnumn smbmdi sm`isaw vwsqy mdd l`bxi (Finding Help with your Family Law Problem) Aqy swfw vybinwr iksy pirvwrk kwnumn dy vkil num qlwsxw (Looking for a Family Law Lawyer) dyko[ kynyfw iv`c, kwnumn ieh kihmdw hy ik izawdwqr mwmilawˆ iv`c donwˆ mwipawˆ num b`cy pwlx Aqy ies bwry PYsly lyx dw AiDkwr hy ik b`icawˆ di dykbwl ikvyˆ kiqi jwˆdi hy[ jy qusiˆ Aqy quhwfy b`cy dw dujw mwpw A`fo A`f ho jwˆdy ho jwˆ iek`ty nhiˆ rihmdy, qwˆ quhwfy vwsqy quhwfy b`cy dy rozwnw jivn Aqy ies bwbq Xojnwvwˆ bxwauxw lwzmi hy ik quhwfw b`cw ik`qy rihmdw hy[ qusiˆ ieh iemqzwm vkilwˆ Aqy Adwlq di shwieqw dy nwl jwˆ ies qoˆ ibnwˆ kr skdy ho[ jy qusiˆ sihmq nhiˆ ho skdy, qwˆ donwˆ iv`coˆ koei vi mwpw Adwlq kol hvwlgi jwˆ phumc dy AwdyS vwsqy ArzI dy skdw hy[ quhwfy vwsqy hvwlgi jwˆ phumc vwsqy aus Sihr jwˆ ksby iv`c ArzI dyxw lwzmi hy ij`qy quhwfw b`cw Awm qor qy rihmdw hy[ hvwlgi jwˆ phumc bwbq AwdySwˆ num bdilaw jw skdw hy jykr donwˆ iv`coˆ iksy vi mwpy di siqqi mh`qvpurn qor qy bdl jwˆdi hy[ 2 flew Family Law Education for Women

3 EntwrIE iv`c AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn hvwlgi ki hy? hvwlgi (Custody) dw mqlb hy b`cy dy jivn bwry swry Aihm PYsilAwˆ num krn dw kwnumni AiDkwr Aqy ijmmyvwri[ ies iv`c AijhIAwˆ cizwˆ Swml hn ijvyˆ ik: b`cy dy skul di cox krnw b`cy dy Drm di cox krnw b`cy vwsqy fwktri PYsly lyxw[ hvwlgi vwly mwpy num hvwlgi vwlw mwpw (custodial parent) ikhw jwˆdw hy Aqy b`cw izawdwqr hvwlgi vwly mwpy kol rihmdw hy[ phumc ki humdi hy? jy ie`k mwpy num b`cy di hvwlgi iml jwˆdi hy, qwˆ dujy mwpy num Aksr phumc prwpq hovygi[ Awm qor qy Adwlq ieh socdi hy ik donwˆ mwipawˆ dy nwl smprk r`kxw b`cy dy sb qoˆ vdiaw ih`qwˆ iv`c hy[ jy Adwlq phumc dw AwdyS idmdi hy, qwˆ iesdw Awm qor qy mqlb b`cy num imlx jwx Aqy aus nwl smwˆ ibqwaux Aqy ausdi syhq, qmdrusqi Aqy is`ikaw bwry jwxn qoˆ humdw hy[ eyqoˆ q`k ik koei mwpw ijsny Awpxy b`cy nwl izawdw smwˆ nhiˆ ibqwieaw, Awm qor qy phumc prwpq kr skdw hy[ auh mwpw ijsdi b`cy q`k phumc humdi hy, ausnum gyr-hvwlgi (non-custodial) jwˆ phumc vwlw mwpw (access parent) ikhw jwˆdw hy[ 3

4 hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k jy qusiˆ Awpxy b`cy dy dujy mwpy dy nwl AwswnI nwl Aqy eimwndwri nwl g`l kr skdy ho, qwˆ hvwlgi Aqy phumc bwbq qusiˆ Awpxy Kud dy gyr-rsmi iemqzwm kr skdy ho[ AwpxI sihmqi num qwrik ilkky ilkqi rup dyxw Aqy donwˆ mwipawˆ dw iesqy dsqkq krvwauxw ie`k vdiaw ivcwr hy[ jy iesqy nzr pwaux lei Aqy Adwlq kol dwier krn lei hryk mwpw koei vkil krdw hy qwˆ ieh bhuq vdiaw g`l hy[ jy qusiˆ dujy mwpy nwl sihmq nhiˆ ho skdy, jwˆ jy irsqw dur-ivvhwr vwlw hy jwˆ si, qwˆ quhwfy Aqy quhwfy b`cy vwsqy vdyry sur`ikaq g`l koei vkil kr lyxw Aqy hvwlgi Aqy phumc dy iemqzwm krn lei Adwlq jwx qy ivcwr krnw hy[ pr, b`cw kyvl ie`k mwpy nwl rih skdw hy Aqy dujw mwpw rihx dy iemqzwm vwsqy sihmqi idmdw hy jwˆ iesnum svikwr kr lyˆdw hy[ jd q`k iemqzwm num svikwr kiqw jwˆdw hy, dujw mwpw hvwlgi dy AiDkwr num C`f idmdw hy, Aqy ausnum b`cy q`k phumc dw AiDkwr humdw hy, jd q`k ik koei iekrwrnwmw jwˆ AdwlqI AwdyS iemqzwm num bdl nhiˆ idmdw[ hvwlgi diawˆ iksmwˆ hvwlgi iemqzwmwˆ diawˆ do mu`k iksmwˆ humdiawˆ hn: 1. ieklwpi hvwlgi jy quhwfy kol ieklwpi hvwlgi (sole custody) hy, qwˆ qusiˆ Awpxy b`cy di syhq, is`ikaw Aqy Dwrimk pvhwei ijhiawˆ cizwˆ bwry v`fy PYsly Kud kr skdy ho[ dujy mwpy num Awm qor qy quhwfy v`loˆ kiqy jwˆdy PYsilAwˆ num jwxn dw h`k humdw hy, pr auh quhwnum ieh nhiˆ d`s skdw ik b`cy vwsqy ki PYsly lyxy hn[ 4 flew Family Law Education for Women

5 EntwrIE iv`c AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn 2. smxukq hvwlgi jy quhwfy kol smxukq hvwlgi (joint custody) hy, qwˆ quhwnum Aqy b`cy dy dujy mwpy donwˆ num b`cy dy jivn bwry v`fy PYsly lyx dw AiDkwr hy, ijs vwsqy quhwnum imlky c`lx di lov humdi hy[ jy Adwlq jwxdi hy ik mwipawˆ di nhiˆ inbdi, jwˆ jykr durivvhwr ho irhw hy jwˆ humdw si, qwˆ Adwlq v`loˆ smxukq hvwlgi dyx di G`t smbwvnw hy[ smxukq hvwlgi dw mqlb jruri qor qy ieh nhiˆ hy ik b`cw hryk mwpy nwl rihmdy hoey brwbr dw smwˆ ibqwauˆdw hy[ quhwnum pqw hoxw cwhidw hy: jd Adwlq AMiqm hvwlgi prbmd bwry PYslw kr rhi humdi hy, qwˆ ieh donwˆ mwipawˆ iv`coˆ iksy ie`k num AMqirm jwˆ AsQweI hvwlgi dy skdi hy[ ieh prbmd qd q`k lwgu rhygw jd q`k Adwlq AMiqm hvwlgi AwdyS nhiˆ dy idmdi[ AMqirm hvwlgi mh`qvpurn hy ikauˆik Adwlq Awm qor qy ausy prbmd num jwri r`kxw cwhumdi hy jo pihlwˆ hi b`cy vwsqy kmm kr irhw hy[ phumc diawˆ iksmwˆ Adwlq bhuq Al`g Al`g iksmwˆ dy phumc AwdyS dy skdi hy[ kuj ku phumcwˆ bhuq Ku`lHIAwˆ humdiawˆ hn jdik kuj hor vdyry ivsys humdiawˆ hn[ 1. vwjb phumc koei Adwlq ieh AwdyS dy skdi hy ik ie`k mwpy num hvwlgi prwpq humdi hy Aqy dujy mwpy num vwjb phumc prwpq humdi hy[ ieh quhwnum Aqy quhwfy b`cy dy dujy mwpy num quhwfy Awpxy phumc iemqzwm krn dy Xog bxwauˆdw hy ijs nwl qusiˆ donoˆ sihmq humdy ho[ 5

6 hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k 2. inxq jwˆ simq phumc jy quhwfi Awpxy b`cy dy dujy mwpy nwl nhiˆ bxdi, qwˆ qusiˆ Adwlq num ie`k AwdyS vwsqy kih skdy ho jo phumc mulwkwqwˆ diawˆ mdwˆ qya krdw hy, ijvŷ ik phumc mulwkwqwˆ kdô, ikmnhiawˆ ku lmbiawˆ Aqy ikmnhy ku icr bwad hoxgiawˆ[ iesnum inxq jwˆ simq phumc ikhw jwˆdw hy[ jy quhwfy irsqw durivvhwr vwlw hy jwˆ si, qwˆ qusiˆ Adwlq num mulwkwqwˆ vwsqy qwri^wˆ Aqy smyˆ qya krn lei kih skdy ho qwˆ jo quhwnum iehnwˆ ivsqwrwˆ bwbq dujy mwpy nwl g`l nw krni pvy[ 3. holi holi vdwei phumc kei vwr Adwlq ie`k holi holi vdx vwli phumc di smwˆ-swrxi (graduated access schedule) qya kr skdi hy[ iesdw mqlb ieh hy ik phumc vwly mwpy num pihlwˆ pihl b`cy nwl bhuq simq smwˆ imldw hy, pr holi holi smwˆ pwky ausnum vdyry phumc imldi hy[ ie`k holi holi phumc di smwˆ-swrxi quhwfy b`cy num phumc vwly mwpy num jwxn Aqy ausqy ivsvws krn dw mokw idmdi hy[ jy quhwfy b`cy ny phumc vwly mwpy dy nwl izawdw smwˆ nhiˆ ibqwieaw hy jwˆ jy qusiˆ aus smyˆ A`fo A`f ho gey si jd quhwfw b`cw bhuq Cotw si qwˆ Adwlq ie`k holi holi phumc dyx di smwˆ-swrxi di vrqoˆ kr skdi hy[ 4. ingrwni hyt phumc jy Adwlq phumc vwly mwpy nwl b`cy di sur`ikaw bwry icmqq hy, jwˆ jy phumc vwly mwpy Aqy b`cy ny izawdw smwˆ iek`itawˆ nhiˆ ibqwieaw qwˆ Adwlq ingrwni hyt phumc (supervised access) dw AwdyS dy skdi hy[ ingrwni hyt phumc dw mqlb ieh hy ik mwpw b`cy nwl iek`ilawˆ nhiˆ Tihr skdw[ ijhvw ivakqi mulwkwqwˆ di ingrwni krdw hy, auh koei pirvwrk myˆbr jwˆ koei hor ho skdw hy[ ingrwni vwliawˆ mulwkwqwˆ Aijhy sqwnwˆ qy vi vwpr skdiawˆ hn ijmnhwˆ num ingrwni vwly phumc kyˆdr (supervised access centres) ikhw jwˆdw hy, ij`qy mulwkwqwˆ di ingrwni krn vwlw Amlw humdw hy[ 6 flew Family Law Education for Women

7 EntwrIE iv`c AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn Adwlq ingrwni hyt phumc vtwˆdirawˆ (supervised access exchanges) dw AwdyS vi dy skdi hy jykr ieh JgVy jwˆ sur`ikaw bwry icmqq hy jd qusiˆ Aqy dujw mwpw b`cy dw vtwˆdrw krn lei imldy ho[ ingrwni hyt phumc vtwˆdry iksy ingrwni vwly phumc kyˆdr ivky vwpr skdy hn, ij`qy Amlw quhwfy Aqy quhwfy swqi ivckwr b`cy num qbdil krn lei mdd krygw qwˆ jo qusiˆ ie`k dujy nwl smprk qoˆ bc skoˆ[ phumc vtwˆdrw iksy sur`ikaq jgh qy vi ho skdw hy ijvyˆ ik koei puils stysn[ 5. koei phumc nhiˆ bhuq durl`b mwmilawˆ iv`c, iksy mwpy num ausdy b`cy q`k phumc qoˆ ienkwr kr id`qw jwvygw[ ieh kyvl qwˆ hi vwprygw jykr Adwlq dw ivsvws hy ik b`cy num aus mwpy duawrw srirk jwˆ Bwvnwqmk qor qy nukswn phumcwieaw jwvygw, Aqy ingrwni hyt phumc kwpi sur`ikaw prdwn nhiˆ krygi[ b`cw ik`qy rihmdw hy jy quhwfy kol ieklwpi hvwlgi hy, qwˆ b`cw izawdwqr smwˆ jwˆ swrw smwˆ quhwfy kol hi rhygw[ pr hvwlgi hmysw hi ies g`l dw inrxw nhiˆ krdi ik b`cw ik`qy rihmdw hy[ jy quhwfy kol dujy mwpy dy nwl smxukq hvwlgi hy jwˆ jy dujy mwpy kol phumc hy, qwˆ b`cw quhwfy donwˆ dy nwl rihmdy hoey Awpxw smwˆ vmf skdw hy[ ies g`l qy inrbr krn Anuswr ik qusiˆ iks ciz qy sihmq humdy ho jwˆ Adwlq ki AwdyS idmdi hy, b`cw kei vwri dujy mwpy dy nwl rwqwˆ vwsqy, hpqy dy Cu`tI vwly idnwˆ vwsqy, kuj hpiqawˆ jwˆ Cu`tIAwˆ dorwn Tihr skdw hy[ Awm qor qy, ie`k b`cw ie`k mwpy nwl dujy nwloˆ vdyry smwˆ ibqwauˆdw hy[ jd Aijhw vwprdw hy, qwˆ auh Gr ij`qy b`cw vdyry smwˆ ibqwauˆdw hy, ausnum b`cw di mu`fli irhwies ikhw jwˆdw hy[ 7

8 hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k auh mwpw jo izawdwqr smwˆ b`cy dw ikawl r`kdw hy, ausnum mu`fli smbwl prdwnk ikhw jwˆdw hy[ Adwlqwˆ Aksr ieh PYslw krdiawˆ hn ik b`cy num aus mwpy dy nwl rihxw cwhidw hy jo b`cy dy jivn dy izawdwqr smyˆ vwsqy mu`fli smbwl prdwnk irhw hy, jwˆ aus smyˆ mu`fli smbwl prdwnk hy jd Adwlq hvwlgi bwry PYslw kr rhi humdi hy[ hvwlgi Aqy phumc AwdySwˆ dw pwlx krnw jy hvwlgi Aqy phumc vwsqy quhwfy kol koei iekrwrnwmw jwˆ AdwlqI AwdyS hy, qwˆ quhwnum lwzmi qor qy iesdi pwlxw krni cwhidi hy[ hvwlgi AwdyS num lwgu krn iv`c quhwfi mdd krn lei, jwˆ qwˆ qusiˆ jwˆ b`cy dw dujw mwpw puils num kih skdw hy[ jy qusiˆ dujy mwpy num ausdy b`cy num imlx nhiˆ idmdy ijvyˆ ik AwdyS iv`c inrdwrq kiqw igaw hy, qwˆ Adwlq b`cy di hvwlgi dujy mwpy num dy skdi hy jykr auh ies vwsqy ArzI idmdw jwˆ idmdi hy[ pr kwnumn quhwnum phumc qoˆ ienkwr dy Xog jrur bxwauˆdw hy jy qusiˆ Awpxy b`cy di sur`ikaw num lyky fry hoey ho[ jy qusiˆ socdy ho ik quhwfy b`cy num Kqrw hy Aqy qusiˆ phumc qoˆ ienkwr kr idmdy ho, qwˆ qurmq kwnumni mdd hwsl kro[ iksy smktkwl di siqqi iv`c, 911 qy puils num kwl kro[ kei vwri, ie`k mwpw phumc vwsqy lvwei krygw Aqy Pyr AwdyS id`qy phumc smyˆ dorwn b`cy num imlx lei nhiˆ Awvygw[ b`cy vwsqy ieh g`l pryswn krn vwli ho skdi hy pr, bdiksmqi nwl, phumc vwly mwpy num mulwkwq krn lei mzbur krn vwsqy kwnumn kuj vi nhiˆ kr skdw[ jy Aijhw bkwiedw AwDwr qy vwprdw hy, qwˆ swriawˆ KuMJ geiawˆ jwˆ CotIAwˆ kr id`qiawˆ geiawˆ mulwkwqwˆ dw ihswb r`ko[ ho skdw hy qusiˆ Adwlq kol vwps jwx Aqy phumc AwdyS iv`c qbdili krn lei kihx vwsqy ies jwxkwri di vrqoˆ krn dy Xog hovoˆ[ 8 flew Family Law Education for Women

9 EntwrIE iv`c AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn Adwlqwˆ hvwlgi Aqy phumc bwry PYslw ikvyˆ krdiawˆ hn? jd Adwlq hvwlgi Aqy phumc bwry koei PYslw krdi hy, qwˆ iesnum lwzmi qor qy kyvl b`cy dy sb qoˆ vdiaw ih`qwˆ qy ivcwr krnw cwhidw hy[ ieh ie`k skq kwnumni tyst humdw hy[ kuj ku cizwˆ ijmnhwˆ qy Adwlq idawn dyvygi, auh ieh hn: ki pirvwr iv`c koei durivvhwr humdw irhw hy? hryk mwpy Aqy b`cy ivckwr irsqw ikmnhy ku ipawr vwlw hy? b`cy Aqy hryk mwpy ivckwr Bwvnwqmk gmfwˆ ikmnhiawˆ ku mzbuq hn? b`cw iksy siqr vwqwvrx iv`c ikmnhw ku icr irhw hy? b`cy di smbwl Aqy pwlx-posx bwbq hryk mwpy diawˆ ki Xojnwvwˆ hn? hryk ivakqi ikmnhi ku cmgi qrhwˆ mwpwigri kr skdw hy? b`cy vwsqy vsqwˆ muh`eiaw krvwaux lei hryk ivakqi ikmnhw ku Xog hy? v`fy b`icawˆ vwsqy, b`cw ki cwhumdw hy? pirvwrk kwnumn Adwlqwˆ ies g`l qy vi idawn idmdiawˆ hn ik pihlwˆ qoˆ hi ikhvy iemqzwm mozud hn[ iesnum XQw-siQqI (status quo) ikhw jwˆdw hy[ jy b`cy dy rihx dw prbmd vdiaw kmm kr irhw hy, qwˆ ho skdw hy Adwlq v`fiawˆ qbdiliawˆ nw krniawˆ cwhvy[ mwpy hi kyvl auh lok nhiˆ humdy jo hvwlgi Aqy phumc vwsqy ArzI dy skdy hn[ kwnumn kihmdw hy ik koei vi ivakqi ArzI dy skdw hy[ kei vwr, ivsqirq pirvwrk mŷbr ijvŷ ik dwdw-dwdi/nwnw-nwni, mqryey-mwpy, AwˆtIAwˆ jwˆ AMkl Adwlq kol ArzI idmdy hn[ ArzI cwhy koei vi dyvy, Adwlq hvwlgi jwˆ phumc dyx qoˆ pihlwˆ b`cy dy sb qoˆ vdiaw ih`qwˆ qy ivcwr krygi[ 9

10 hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k quhwfy b`cy dy nwl qbdil hoxw jd mwpy iek`ty nhiˆ rihmdy qwˆ ie`k musikl mu`dw jo KVHw ho skdw hy auh ieh hy ik ki ijs mwpy nwl b`cw rihmdw hy, auh b`cy num Sihr, prwˆq jwˆ eyqoˆ q`k ik kuj mwmilawˆ iv`c dys qoˆ bwhr vi iljw skdw hy[ qusiˆ shwieqw vwsqy hornwˆ pirvwrk myˆbrwˆ dy vdyry nyvy hox lei, jwˆ ipr nokri dy moky vwsqy qbdil hoxw cwh skdy ho[ Aijhw koei vi qbwdlw, quhwfy b`cy dy dujy mwpy vwsqy b`cy num bkwiedw AwDwr qy imlxw musikl bxw skdw hy[ qbwdly di duri qy inrbr krn Anuswr, phumc mulwkwqwˆ dw ^rcw vi ie`k mu`dw ho skdw hy[ iksy b`cy dy nwl ivhwr krdy swry PYsilAwˆ vwˆgum, Adwlq ieh PYslw krygi ik ki b`cy dy sb qoˆ vdiaw ih`qwˆ dy AwDwr qy qbwdly num AwigAw id`qi jwvy[ jy quhwnum Awpxy b`cy dy nwl qbdil hox di AwigAw id`qi jwˆdi hy, qwˆ ho skdw hy Adwlq phumc AwdyS iv`c qbdili kr dyvy qwˆ jo phumc vwly mwpy dy nwl mukwblqn vdyry lmbiawˆ mulwkwqwˆ num AwigAw id`qi jw sky, jwˆ ieh bwl shwieqw iv`c quhwnum prwpq hox vwli rkm num G`t kr skdi hy ikauˆik b`cy num imlx vwsqy dujy mwpy dy mihmgy Xwqrw ^rcy hoxgy[ kuj mwmilawˆ iv`c, Adwlq ieh kih skdi hy ik quhwnum Awpxy b`cy dy nwl qbdil hox di AwigAw nhiˆ hy, jy dujw mwpw sihmq nhiˆ humdw[ quhwfy b`cy dy nwl Xwqrw krnw izawdwqr mwmilawˆ iv`c, jy dujy mwpy kol hvwlgi jwˆ phumc hy, qwˆ qusiˆ b`cy num dujy mwpy di AwigAw dy bgyr kynyfw qoˆ bwhr nhiˆ iljw skdy[ iesdw mqlb ieh hy ik jy qusiˆ Awpxy b`cy dy nwl Xwqrw krni cwhumdy ho, qwˆ quhwnum hvwlgi AwdyS Aqy dujy mwpy koloˆ ie`k p`qr lyx di lov hovygi jo b`cy num kynyfw qoˆ bwhr jwx di AwigAw idmdw hy[ ies p`qr num iksy vkil duawrw prmwixq kiqw jwxw cwhidw hy[ 10 flew Family Law Education for Women

11 EntwrIE iv`c AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn jd qusiˆ kynyfw qoˆ bwhr jwˆdy ho Aqy/jwˆ iksy hor dys iv`c dwkl hox di koiss krdy ho, qwˆ quhwnum srh`di AiDkwrIAwˆ duawrw quhwnum ieh swbq krn lei pu`cy jwx di aumid krni cwhidi hy ik ki b`cy dw dujw mwpw b`cy di Xwqrw vwsqy sihmq hoieaw hy[ b`cy dw Aphrn kei vwri, ie`k mwpw b`cy num dujy mwpy di AwigAw dy bgyr kynyfw qoˆ bwhr ly jwˆdw hy[ ieh bhuq gmbir mwmlw hy[ iesnum b`cy dw Aphrn ikhw jwˆdw hy[ b`cy dw Aphrn kynyfw iv`c ie`k gmbir AprwD hy[ ies g`l num puri qrhwˆ XkInI bxwaux dw koei qrikw nhiˆ hy ik quhwfy b`cy num kdy vi quhwfi AwigAw bgyr kynyfw qoˆ bwhr nhiˆ iljwieaw jwˆdw, pr kuj ku cizwˆ hn jo qusiˆ Awpxy b`cy di r`ikaw krn iv`c mdd krn lei kr skdy ho[ ieh XkInI bxwe ik hvwlgi AwdyS jwˆ iekrwrnwmw: v`d qoˆ v`d smbv h`d q`k sp`st Aqy ivsqwirq hy; ivsys qor qy ieh kihmdw hy ik b`cw quhwfi AwigAw dy ibnwˆ kynyfw dy bwhr Xwqrw nhiˆ kr skdw[ AwdyS ieh vi kih skdw hy ik quhwnum jwˆ Adwlq num lwzmi qor qy b`cy dw jwˆ dujy mwpy dw pwsport r`kxw cwhidw hy[ 11

12 hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k jy quhwfy b`cy num ibnwˆ AwigAw dy kynyfw qoˆ bwhr iljwieaw jwˆdw hy qwˆ ki kiqw jwvy jy qusiˆ socdy ho ik quhwfy b`cy num quhwfi AwigAw dy ibnwˆ dys qoˆ bwhr iljwieaw igaw hy, qwˆ quhwnum: qurmq puils num kwl krnw cwhidw hy[ puils kynyfw ivcly Aqy aus dys ivcly srh`di AiDkwrIAwˆ num ie`k sucyqnw ByjygI ij`qy dujw mwpw quhwfy b`cy num ly igaw ho skdw hy[ kmsulr APyArz ibauro (Consular Affairs Bureau) num qurmq, jwˆ qy tol-pri kwl kro[ auhnwˆ dw dpqr idn iv`c 24 GMty, hpqy dy 7 idn Ku`lHw rihmdw hy[ jy quhwfy b`cy num quhwfi AwigAw qoˆ ibnwˆ kynyfw qoˆ bwhr iljwieaw jwˆdw hy, qwˆ quhwnum qurmq iksy prvws vkil Aqy ie`k pirvwrk kwnumn vkil donwˆ nwl vi qurmq g`l krni cwhidi hy[ mu`k kwnumn jo quhwnum quhwfy b`cy num vwps lyx iv`c mdd krn dy Xog ho skdw hy auh hy AMqrrwStrI bwl Aphrx dy isvl p`kwˆ bwbq hyg smjoqw (Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction)[ ieh ie`k AMqrrwStrI smdi hy ijs au`qy bhuq swry dyswˆ ny dsqkq kiqy hn[ auh dys ijmnhwˆ ny smdi qy dsqkq kiqy hn, sihmq humdy hn ik auh auhnwˆ b`icawˆ num l`bx Aqy vwps movn lei ie`k dujy nwl imlky kmm krngy ijmnhwˆ num ie`k dys qoˆ dujy dys iv`c gyr-kwnumni qriky nwl qbdil kiqw igaw ho skdw hy[ 12 flew Family Law Education for Women

13 EntwrIE iv`c AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn jy quhwfy b`cy num iksy Aijhy dys iv`c iljwieaw igaw hy ijsny ies smjoqy qy dsqkq nhiˆ kiqy, qwˆ quhwfy b`cy num kynyfw iv`c vwps ilawauxw bhuq izawdw musikl hovygw[ jy Aijhw vwprdw hy, qwˆ qusiˆ hvwlgi vwsqy aus dys dy kwnumnwˆ di vrqoˆ krky lvwei kr skdy ho ij`qy quhwfy b`cy num iljwieaw igaw si[ qusiˆ Aphrn krqw Aqy ausdy pirvwr dy nwl vi g`lbwq nij`tx di koiss kr skdy ho[ iksy AMqrrwStrI Aphrn num ikvyˆ rokxw hy, ies bwry vdyry jwxkwri vwsqy, pvho AMqrrwStrI bwl Aphrx: mwipawˆ vwsqy ie`k nymwvli[ ies pusiqkw num POrn APyArz kynyfw (Foreign Affairs Canada) duawrw prkwsq kiqw igaw si[ ieh pusiqkw ieh vi d`sdi hy ik jy quhwfy b`cy num quhwfi AwigAw dy ibnwˆ kynyfw qoˆ bwhr iljwieaw jwˆdw hy qwˆ ki krnw hy[ qusiˆ POrn APyArz kynyfw qoˆ ie`k kwpi dw Awrfr dy skdy ho jwˆ ipr nymwvli num qy AwnlweIn pvho[ ivdys Xwqrw krnw qihq mddgwri jwxkwri id`qi gei hy[ iehnwˆ sm`griawˆ iv`c prgtwey ivcwr FLEW dy ivcwr hn Aqy ieh jruri nhiˆ hy ik ieh prwˆq dy ivcwrwˆ di qrjmwni krdy hox[ hwlwˆik iv`qi qor qy ies prkwsnw iv`c lwa PwaUˆfySn AwP EntwrIE ny shwieqw id`qi hy, pr ieh jruri nhiˆ hy ik ies prkwsnw dy AMS PwaUˆfySn dy ivcwrwˆ di qrjmwni krdy hox[ jd koei nzdiki irsqw Kqm ho irhw hovy qwˆ ihmsw dw Kqrw vd jwˆdw hy[ jy quhwnum qurmq koei Kqrw hy qwˆ 911 qy kwl kro[ jy qusiˆ jwˆ quhwfw koei jwxkwr Kqry iv`c hy qwˆ shwieqw hwsl krn bwry jwxkwri vwsqy FLEW website dyko[ jy qusiˆ EntwrIE iv`c rihx vwli, koei PrYˆc BwSw boldi AOrq ho, qwˆ pirvwrk kwnumn diawˆ AdwlqI kwrvweiawˆ iv`c quhwnum PrYˆc BwSw diawˆ syvwvwˆ q`k phumc krn dw AiDkwr hy[ quhwfy AiDkwrwˆ bwry vdyry jwxkwri vwsqy, iksy vkil, iksy BweIcwrk kwnumni kliink, jwˆ ipr shwieqw lwein PImyf (Femaide) nwl , TTY qy smprk kro[ PrYˆc BwSw iv`c syvwvwˆ q`k phumc ikvyˆ krni hy, ies bwry vdyry jwxkwri qusiˆ swfi vy`bsweit jwˆ qy l`b skdy ho[ 13

14 pirvwrk kwnumn dy auplbd ivsy:* 1. JgiVAW dw bdlvw h`l Aqy pirvwrk kwnumn (PJB 001) 2. b`icaw di r`ikaw Aqy pirvwrk kwnumn (PJB 002) 3. bwl shwieqw (PJB 003) 4. POjdwrI Aqy pirvwrk kwnumn (PJB 004) 5. hvwlgi Aqy mulwkwq dw h`k (PJB 005) 6. GrylU iekrwrnwmy (PJB 006) 7. pirvwrk kwnumn dy mwmilaw iv`c swlsi (PJB 007) 8. prvwsi, SrnwrQI Aqy gyr-ruqbw AOrqW lei pirvwrk kwnumn smbmdi msly (PJB 008) 9. pirvwrk kwnumn nwl sbmdq quhwfi muskl lei mdd l`bxw (PJB 009) 10. pirvwrk kwnumn iv`c jwiedwd di vmf ikvyn kiqi jwdi hy (PJB 010) 11. ivawh Aqy qlwk (PJB 011) 12. pqi/pqni lei shwieqw (PJB 012) * ieh prcw AnykW Al`g-Al`g PrimAW Aqy boliaw iv`c auplbd hy[ vdyry jwxkwri lei imhrbwni krky vyko ji[ pirvwrk kwnumn dy Awpxy h`kw num smjx iv`c mdd lei quhwnum vdik jwxkwri swfi vy~bsweit qon vi iml skdi hy[

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